An update

You know how I was frustrated with one of my friends?  While I can't say that the situation has resolved itself yet, things are going in the right direction.  Last week, I was hanging out with a different friend who also happens to be friends with the person I've been having problems with.  She brought up how much difficulty she's been having in meeting up with our mutual friend, and how our friend is always so busy that she never seems to have time to hang out anymore. 

What a relief!  I guess it's not me she's avoiding, per se, but rather she's avoiding all her friends in general while her life has been so hectic.  Better yet, when I called her this weekend, she actually returned my phone call AND asked if I wanted to hang out next week.  Guess she's not mad at me, just busy.

Nevertheless, I think I'm going to talk to her about how I've been feeling for the past few months, particularly about how hurt I felt when I texted, called, and emailed after surgery this summer (mostly because I felt terrible and needed some kind of distraction) and she didn't get back to me...at all.  I get that she may have been busy, but when she didn't return any of my messages, it kind of felt like she didn't care.

Ah well...